We've been dating for almost 4 months now. During this time, we've had constant fights over various things... things that she doesn't feel is important. Now, whenever she does something that pisses me off, she gets mad because I'm mad. She's just now a junior in college majoring in Psychology. Last night on the phone, I asked "what motivates you?" and she said she didn't know. I try to tell her why motivation is important and listed some of the things that motivates me, and she's like "look, can we just talk about something else?" She says that whenever I bring up something that isn't all sweet and rosy. After she said that, I said "what do you want to talk about? You want to drink bubble tea? Yeah, me too. I also want to see you. Is this what you want to talk about? If you don't like what I'm talking about, why don't you try talking about something." <silence> then after getting pissed at her, she's like "ok ok, I'll think about it." She's 22 right now, but she acts like a 15 year old still wanting to have "fun". I'm pretty sure she's still a virgin so it's not like she's sleeping around or anything, just that she's pretty immature when it comes to life. She's going back to her own country to talk to her dad to see what she's going to do after graduation. I tried to talk about it last night, and it's like she wouldn't listen to anything I had to say. Likewise in our relationship, I feel that fighting every now and then is good for the relationship, but she started crying when I said that and said if I truly believe that, she can't be with me. Whatever, we fight like every day anyway (now once a week since I'm working in a different city). She doesn't really put much into the relationship, runs away whenever it's rough (as in doesn't talk to me, doesn't answer phone calls, doesn't open her door when I go over), refuses to apologize first for anything even when it's her fault. I was happy with her about a month before we started dating, but now I have no idea where we're going.