First off. I love my SO so very very much. I wouldn't do anything in the world that would hurt her. She is the love of my life and I will never give her up and she knows this. Recently one of her best friends started talking to me and we're almost instantly really good friends. Now for starters, I have no intent in pursuing her best friend, she's an awesome friend to me, but that's all. What bothers me is that my SO doesn't even like the fact that I talk to her. I don't have many female friends in the first place, why could one make a difference! Here's more of the story, that has to do with her. She has many, many guy friends, those of whom she hugs and flirts with everyday. She willingly tells me about it, why! But I'm a nice guy and I don't let it get to me. I know we both truely love each other so I shrug off all the pointless hugs that she "needs" to give her friends. One of her guy friends also offered to take her to Switzerland, and let me tell you, I probably won't be going. I've just been starting to recently think about this because one girl is sturring up her mind, but I have numerous guys to think about when she's on her own. It's starting to bother me that she thinks this way. Cliffs: SO's bestfriend is great friends with me.. SO is jealous, even though I'm truely in love with her. My SO is great friends with many, many guys, but i remain faithful in her. Damn, I'm beginning to think this is a maturity/trust issue now that I wrote all this. Anyone have any other opinions on this? Sorry if this is really closely related to the other topic.