Hey everyone, I am having some relationship issues knew this would be the right place to go for some assistance. I've been lurking here and all over the site on a friends account, and decided to create my own to post and enjoy OT. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for just about a year, she is 17 and I am 18. I have know her for many years, and from my standpoint, I would consider this a great relationship. As of recently we have been having some issues, mostly involving sex and sexual activities. She has made it clear that sex is not an option in our relationship at this point, though she has been getting more acquainted with the idea because originally she wanted to wait until marriage. I walked into this relationship knowing that sex was a very unlikely possibility, but i still can't seem to keep it from bothering me and it has recently been negatively affecting our relationship. I am not a virgin, making the issue even more difficult. We do engage in oral sex and have our fun, but even that is starting to become an issue. It seems like I am much more focused on the physical aspect of our relationship than she is, which in turn makes it difficult to agree on what happens. OT, i came here to ask a few questions about my situation. Firstly, how can i deal with and make this experience less painful? Also, is it wrong to be worried about sexual compatibility this early in the relationship? Basically i feel like she does not fulfill all of my sexual needs, and she feels like I expect to much. Please any responses would be helpful.