It seems like since my relationship started with my girlfriend I have been fighting a battle of getting her to eat healthy and to exercise. For awhile I was successful, but then one day it all just stopped and I have been loosing this fight. Everything I try, like encouraging her to eat several small meals through out the day or me cooking healthy meals when we are home, just all go to waste. When she has lunch, its totals up to 1200+ calories and then at dinner the other night she had 3 full plates of pasta at a restaurant while I barely finished one. I believe for a girl her age and size, she should only need 1600 calories to maintain weight. On top of all that she has started to party more, so the beer weight is not helping. I confronted her a few days ago about it and she did not want to change her life style. Even her doctor told her that she was over weight and needs to go on a diet. The only thing she did was to attack my weight, which I responded that I just started working out again and the trainer at the company gym told me my body fat % is ideal and my BMI is average. She tells me she hates to run (which she use to run 3miles 4 times a week), cannot afford a gym membership (I offered to pay, but she then claimed work gets in the way), hates just doing pushups and situps, and likes to eat and drink what she wants. So I am at a loss... anyone ever had to deal with someone resistant to getting into shape and being healthy?