Already posted this in OT, got a bit more support than I thought, and OTer timmay recommended posting it here, so here I am hoping that it'll help me out further. Heres what I previously posted: So theres been ton of these threads on OT, so I figured why not make one myself. Me and my now ex-gf (of about 2 and a half years, since senior year of HS) broke up about 3 weeks ago, and at the time it was a mutual thing because we both made the decision since we just didn't get along. Afterwards, there were 2 conversations with both of us just talking, seeing how we both felt, etc. One time she actually said she thought about making up lies to make me angry at her so that it would be easier on me, which made me question the validity of her cheating on me a little bit, but only a bit. Tonight came the third conversation since she called me, and I brought up how I saw pictures of her put up on facebook with her drinking, and surrounded by a bunch of dudes. Eventually we start having sort of an argument and she ends up telling me how she cheated on me while studying abroad in London. At the time of the conversation, it didn't really make me feel anything. But afterwards, it started to hit me. Things like "How dare she even look at me after getting back" and "How could see even have those phone conversations with me while over there" start coming through my mind, and now I'm here trying to vent on OT, probably against my better judgement. She also has the audacity to try to say "Don't call me a whore". She says that she now realizes she is better off without me since she feels "free to do the things she wants" which pretty much means drink and smoke weed since I didn't want her doing that when I wasn't around. She also did coke for awhile, which I forgave her for since she begged me to. I regret that now. I thought about posting her facebook and number and etc here on OT to try to seek some sort of revenge, but I've decided that eventually, someone will fuck her over, hopefully even worse than she did to me. And I hope she tries to contact me the day that happens. Now I just have to wait and try to get over this, and I know it'll be difficult For all of those who will want pics (Pretty much all of OT), here they are. Yes, that is me on the right. Trying to link pics from facebook here: Photos of her, now a whore: Update: I talked to one of my friend's gf, who was one of our mutual friends. She updated me on how one night, both of them drank together at my friend's gf's ex-bf's place (a little confusing, but bear with me please). I knew about that night, because both of them came over to my place and my gf was drunk. That night all she would talk about was how she loved me and would never do anything with anyone else, even if she was drunk. Bullfuckingshit. Turns out that night, she made with the Karen's (friends gf) ex, with another guy feeling up on her. This is really making me sick now, because this was quite awhile ago and both of them convinced us nothing happened. I still went out with her for a long time afterwards. Now I feel angry, disgusted, but while knowing I'm better off. Help ?