Story goes, After going out with my SO for 2 years she moves in with me, here it is 2 years after that (4 total) and on thurday she comes up to my work for lunch (normal thing) so when she gets there she ask if we could talk, basiclly tells me she needs to be alone right now, and needs some time to her self (i'm like wtf can we talk about what problems you are haveing before you leave, she's like no i gotta go to work, i'll talk to you later.) so i leave her be, call her friday afternoon, she's like i wanna move out, at this point i'm like wtf. fastforward saturday night, i'm 2 hours out of town spending time with family, she calls me crying not noing what she wants,end up driving home at like 1 am we talk for like 4 hours till like the crack of dawn and end up hookin up. so i wake up sunday morning leave (she is staying at her friends house (female)) get home . now here's were the fun starts. i open up here outlook by accedent, and see she sent an email on the 11'th of jan, three days befores she told me she needed some time alone, her exact words in the email,(it's not my fault he can't handle the fact that where over) , at this point i'm flipping out, all along she new she was gonna break up with me and waited and told all here friends before she told me. So i don't say anything to her cause i new she was coming over, basiclly she comes over and dumps me Reasons: i don't listen enough, i look happier when i'm on the computer then with here, and how i don't treat her the same any more. Now granted i have been stressed lately (started my own business ect.. and working full time also) my thing is that do i let her go ? i am 24 she is 20 I talked to her today, and asked her. if your not sure what's going on you don't have to move all your shit out yet just take what you need, but if your sure where over i'll help you move it out asap. at which point she says, no lets leave it. what do i do, we have never split in the 4 years together, i love her to death and miss her so much. after sunday, i didn't talk till today also she wants to stop by later and play with our 2 sugar gliders(pets) we just got 2 months ago. as i was typing she called, talked for awhile, she is def coming over tonight, what to do ? or am i just being a little bitch and need to let her go ?