How does the Vag feel about girls paying their way for simple / small things. The girl I'm seeing feels like she needs to pay me back for every little thing. I've probably spent < $20 on her in about 3 weeks now.. Paid for her dinner once, bought her some taco bell when I was on the way to pick her up and I brought her Starbucks this morning because we were out until 5am and she had to work at 9. I'm not the guy who pays for everything with a girl to impress her or win her affection but to me spending a few bucks here and there isn't a big deal. It feels awkward when she tries to pull $1 out to pay for her Bean Burrito at Taco Bell. I really appreciate that she always makes an offer to pay and never expects to get anything for free but how do I tell her that I don't want her money all the time without being rude? Any time she's paid for herself I've said something like "hey you got this one for yourself, ok?". I'm in a better financial situation than her and just don't wanna be telling her to put her money away every time we do something simple.