We've been dating for a little over a year. When we first started having sex last May she was up for it any time, any place. I didn't have to anything to her. Tons of fun. She's since started on the pill and we've both noticed a lower sex drive. She says that at this point she is more focused on enjoying time with me than just sex, but i think the BC also has something to do with it. We concluded that she'd be up for sex more often if i did a better job of turning her love faucet on So, what kind of little tricks can I use to get her horny? I can do a damn decent job of making her cum when we do have sex (she's multi-orgasmic ) but I just need to get us there. Any advice would be appreciated by both us us. TIA.