Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by il_duce, Feb 27, 2005.
I don't really know what to tell her/ how to tell her. Any suggestions?
welp... if you don't know what you want, i can't blame you for not knowing how to tell her.
Like someone else said long ago:
You control how it should be. Suck on her finger how you would want her to suck on your dick simultaneously
Best thing to do is guide her. If my SO likes something, he tells me. If he doesn't like something, he tells me. Communication is key.
Yeah, first time my GF gave me head when she was doing something good I would say...Yeah, thats good keep doing that, thats about all you need to do dawg.
My suggestion is to find a huge whore who gives incredible head, set up a time where you, the whore and your girlfriend are free and have the whore demonstrate to your woman how it's done. Then have your girlfriend join in and give it a go. Hopefully the whore stays and you get tagged by both! *wishful thinking, I know* :lol:
Rent a few porno flicks for her to watch - she'll get the idea.
Truest statement evar!
Not the best memory, but I recall my boyfriend telling me one day when I was going down on him that I was much better than his ex. She used to slap him against her cheek like she thought she was in a porn flick.
That crap is all fake anyway. Best thing for him to do is actually tell her what he likes and doesn't like.
just tell here while shes doing it -- she already has your dick in her mouth, you dont have to worry about inmpressing her to get her to do it anymore, lol -- besides, she probably wouldnt mind the advice
Just grab her ears.
worked for me and my gf.....
I'm sorta having the same problem.
I mean it felt great but I just couldn't cum. I think it must just be not enough friction so I suppose next time I will try to give her pointers.
I have a similar problem, my boyfriend is diabetic and has a difficult time getting an erection (which I prefer to use other ways rather than by blowing him). How does one blow a semi soft dick (since he insists and I am eager to please, but in the end, doesn't seem to work as well as other things we do together.)?
Yeah, just flat out giving advice is the best way. Until she knows that you want, you aren't going to get it.
Ya.. i have to agree with you. If you can't instruct then zip it.
just put a 20$ on the table and tell her if she wants it she has to earn it. It worked great for me.
my girl gave me head for over half an hour and i didn't come. it felt great, don't get me wrong. i'm thinking if i stop wanking it would make it easier for her to make come.
You can demonstrate on yourself how you would like her to do it
j/k practice + talk = teh win
This is really an issue that's addressed amoung girlfriend in the bathroom.
There is no easy way to tell her. You're going to have to hint around, or else you could break her ego. (yes, we have them too)
Try to tell her that you like it deep or whatever.
Just be like "ohh that feels good. do it a little harder/faster." Subtle comments would probably work best. If you don't make a big deal out of it, she probably won't either.