Here's the situation: I was dating this girl for about 3 weeks while I was still at school. 3 weeks went by and that was the end of the school year. She went home to Seattle, I went home to Denver. Things were great, we were going out when we had time (finals time was a bit rough since we are both engineers, lots of tought classes, etc), we were hooking up, etc. we arent in a real relationship yet because she told me she isnt ready for one because of her ex, who she broke up with literally a day before she started dating me. so, should i go visit her or not? it would be kind of an expensive trip (im thinking ~400 or so), but i really want to see her. out first night together we didnt really go out on a date, we just hooked up while we were watching a movie. after our first break of kissing, she told me she had looked up how long it took to drive from Seattle to Denver over the summer. This tells me she is interested in seeing me over the summer, etc etc. my only concern is that we arent officially together yet, so i feel weird going to see her if we arent together. we talk at least once a day, usually more. it feels as if we are together, just havent made it official yet and what not. well?