looking for a good way to watch a remote computer. need something that won't be obvious/intrusive to the users machine. was brought up to use a VNC client. don't know which one i could use that can hide itself and only be seen as a service. in any case i'd like something that can be a server on a 56k machine and hide itself from the user on an XP pro machine. yes this is for spying in a roudabout way. i have permission to spy on this person as they offered to let me spy on them.