I have been seeing this girl for about 2 months. She was engaged for a month of this time. She broke off the engagement. Well we had sex a few times and had an accident once... She missed her period completely and wasn't too worried because she has hormone problems and it does happen sometimes she says. Her and her fiance were trying to have a kid because she has some infertility problems. She is on fertility drugs right now and when we had sex. She took a lab test last Tuesday and she is indeed pregnant. Before she thought she was pregnant she told me that if she is the baby is mine but she wants to put it off on her ex-fiance to not cause any problems. I was really not cool with this. I understand it's an easy out but I would feel guilty the rest of my life. Here is where things get sketchy. At first she tells me she hasn't had sex in a month before we did. The next week she says if she is prego the baby is mine but she wants to put it off on her ex-fiance. I didn't want any part of this. The next week she takes a pregnancy test and is indeed pregnant. Now she is telling me she has sex with her fiance 4 days before we did and she is 80% it is his... Before I told her I wanted to man up and take responsibility she told me it was mine. She has already told her ex-fiance that the kid is his and he's "estactic". I am a little pissed over this. She says it's what he and her have always wanted a family, kid, marriage.. etc etc. and now that she is pregnant that can happen. Well if she is pregnant with my baby this is indeed a problem. I convinced her last night what she was doing was not only wrong to me but also wrong to him. She claimed she told him the whole truth and she is going to talk to me about it today. She doesn't understand why I am so pissed. What would some of you guys do? Take the easy out and just let the guy think the baby is his? Or step up and be a man and take responsibility. My friends think I should be a man and call her fiance myself and talk with him. For all I know she hasn't even told the guy and she is lying to me.... I will definately get a paternity test. I'm just looking for some advice/opinions. *UPDATE* OK. She went to the doctor Tuesday and she is 7 weeks and 1 day pregnant. Due date is April 21st, 2008. The baby's heartrate is 141 and everything is looking good. I talked to her today and asked if the doc told her when the conception date was. She said the conception date is July 30th. We had sex on July the 28th and the condom slipped off and I came all inside of her.... I looked on my cell phone record and I had called my buddy in texas on the 30th to tell him what happened on Saturday the 28th. So I am fairly certain it is mine. She still says she honestly thinks its his!!!! She is in denial. I think it's really too early to stress over so I am going to just give her a little time and space and ask for a paternity test when the time comes. Any advice in the mean time? Do you guys think it's mine? ******2nd UPDATE****** Things have progressed well for me and her. Her ex-fiance had wrote her a letter detailing all kinds of threats upon her if she is with me. He is going to fight for custody and also he's going to kick my ass! She really resents him now. She keeps telling me she has made up her mind and she wants to be with me. I accept that as fact right now. When the baby comes... and if it's not mine? I'm not sure. I'm know I'm taking a chance here. We have begun to tell one another we love each other. It has progressed pretty fast. I honestly do love her right now. When I ask her about a serious relationship she says she does want one but she wants to take things slow and not rush things. She doesn't want our relationship to compare to her previous.. which was 5 years long. So do you guys think I should give her time and a little space to sort everything out or should I go ahead and push for something more?