Ok I got a question I went out with a bunch of people from work the other day, and it just so happens that one of them was lesbian. She dresses like a man and carries herself like man. When our waiter came to take out order, he accidentally called her "Sir". The waiter didnt really know what he was doing cause he didnt even apoligize or realize what was she was. And she got mad that he called her "Sir" How does this work? Im a little confused. If a person carries themselfs like a man and dresses like a man how do they have the right to get mad? Im not saying she didnt have the right to be mad but Im just lost. Can someone explain this to me?