guys. aight so this one might take a min to read. i will give full details so our man poco can relay the feedback. here goes. out at the bar last night, drinking, socializing, having a good time. go to use bathroom outside( long line inside) walk by a girl smoking and i think " im gonna talk to her" so i walk by , and come back with my master plan. pull out a smoke and ask if she has a lighter, she abides and the convo starts. now mind you this is not the chick. anyways we talk,her friends come out n one of my buddies, we all talk. i intoduce myself to heather and leslie ( the girl). anyways after some small chit chat they go back inside. i follow, and we all kinda disperse. that was meeting #1 with leslie. Fast forward. end of the night. i go back outside to smoke, bump into the smoking girl again, bum her lighter once more( i did have my own, but you know) we talk and her friends show back up. i havent seen them since our last time we talked. we all talk a little more. some guys come out they know, i kinda have some small chit chat with leslie nothing i would consider more than casual convo. good song comes on and they all go in to dance. i follow them inside they go off. i stand by bar, i didnt have intentions to dance nor did i feel any real connections right off the bat n whatever with any of them. Well leslie comes back by me at the bar and explains how "she doesent really like dancing too much" so we talk a little. and i ask her what she is doing after the bar, she says she doesent know. i invite her to the after party at my place. she says if i call her she will come over, i get her # and my DD calls so i roll out. i get home, call her about 2:30 leslie, heather and two dudes come over leslie didnt really pay a whole lot of attention to me at first but there were other guys she knew there that im buddies with. well the 4 of them go to leave to go to "crankers" ( 24/7 college diner) she asks if im coming i decline but i didnt think about it cus she asked couple other guys there. i figured it a friendly jesture. kinda " are you coming? you? you? no? ok see you guys later" type deal. anyways go back in my room. and 5 mins later she ends up calling me saying they just went to taco bell ( right acros the street and asks me to come over) i go. i talk to her, we sit by each other chit chat. she ignores the other dude. we all decide to leave , other guy goes home. and we come back to my house. she stands close by me the entire time, doesent care when i rub her back or anything. we laugh, crack jokes, i flirt with her a little bit. we go into my room, me leslie heather n heathers dude. we all hang out leslie said she was at a sweet pistons game, i her but on the way down she holds the hand and i leave it while she does that girly thing where they runt heir fingers over your hands. i figure im good. heather n her dude leave. i sit in my recliner. she sits on my lap, we talk. i go for the kiss. and... denied. ...........i play it off cool. we talk more she tells me i am " too nice" like " youre too nice" i ask if its bad. she says no, its just noones ever been so nice to her before. she tells me how guys usualy try to take advantage of her n stuff ( she is a Virg BTW). but i am different. n says its a good thing anyways i talked to her more. did end up getting to make out a little. i took her home cus it was 4am and heahther wanted to go as well. dropped her friend heather off at dudes house. give leslie ride to her dorm. she tells me to call her. i say i will. get a little goodnight make out action. and say goodbye....... so OT VAG....do i call her?