Just kinda wondering how the guys here feel about their s/o's having mostly guy friends. A girl I am seeing has friends that are girls but a good half of, if not slightly more of her close friends are guys... and it's been that way most of her life. A lot of these "guy friends" currently like her or have liked her in the past (romantically) but she has no interest in them at all. Therefore, it's really not much of a jealousy issue but it is quite obvious (and admittedly so by her) that she has a lot of guy friends because she likes the validation she gets from having guy friends around her that think highly of her.... Stems from insecurities. I wouldn't say this is really a problem for me, but I know that is tends to be pretty common, and i'm just wondering what the Vag thinks about this common scenario. If it helps, we're both in college. I'm 22 and she's 23.