So I'm starting to think that a lot of guys really don't put in that much effort when it comes to sex. How often are most of you willing to go the extra mile? Whatever your personal time limit is, are you willing to push to better it? Do you actually try to make the foreplay great? Are you willing to go till your muscles burn, you are panting for breath and sweat is stinging your eyes if thats whats desired? Are you willing to have the sex thats maybe not quite the sex you would have if it were up to you, for her benefit? Do you cuddle and have appropriate pillow talk after? Are you willing to go all the way for a one night stand? Does it matter if shes decent looking or hot? Do you keep trying in a relationship to have great sex when time/energy permits, or do you get something quick and comfortable and stick with it? how often do you go all out to try to impress and awe a woman by being the best lover you can be, and how often do you go with "good enough" and when do you just plain old not really care?