Here's a picture of the hair I want to have. I don't even know how to start. I have dark hair-it's not as long as his now. All I can tell is that there's some product in his hair, gel or something. I think shampoo and conditioner can open more options for a person to change their hairstyle (add needed thickness or texture) but I don't know what brands to use to get this effect either. I'll try stuff out, but if you guys have any tips or advice, I'd appreciate it. Here's a more answerable question: You go to the barber/salon. What do you say to them? Do you bring a picture? I've always done one thing. They had a "regular cut" which was okay before. It's okay now, but I want to try this style to see if it looks better.