Hanging around couples?

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by BradUF, Jun 6, 2007.

  1. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    I have always made it a policy not to really become friends with girls at all if they had a boyfriend but now that I think about it maybe it would not be so bad to be friends with couples. Maybe I will get to meet more people that way. Is cutting off ties with girls once you found out they have a boyfriend a bad policy or going for the friendship card a better choice?
     
  2. bobbarker70

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    I don't have na answer for you, but I actually have wondered this question very much lately. I wonder in addition if its actually possible to han garound ex's as just friends as well? hmmmmm
     
  3. BradUF

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    Well I won't hang around ex's but sometimes I just think I ruin chances to get to know girls just because I cut things off as soon as I find out there is another guy. Just because they have a boyfriend does not mean there friends do.

    I understand the whole you can't be friends with girls because you will wanna fuck them but I also notice that my friends who are pimps become friendly with every girl they meet no matter what.
     
  4. iceman1123

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    You could ask your question or you could ask

    "do i really want her bf to kick my ass?"

    if she has a man, move on, you're SOL brother, theres more women for you to scam on. leave the taken girls alone, they cant have their cake and eat it too, thats YOUR job
     
  5. BradUF

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    lol I am not trying to waste my time by just sticking around and hope they break up or some bullshit. I was griding with a girl infront of her boyfriend and I didn't get my ass kicked and it is not really something I am worried about.

    Oh, and I don't give a fuck if they are taken but that is not what this is about. I am not trying to move in on these guys girl friends. I am just saying that it is not doing me any good to cut off girls that could just be friends.
     
  6. You just answered your own question.

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  7. BradUF

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    If you think about it the rules state you can't be friends with any girl because you want to fuck her and you can't be friends with girls who have boyfriends. So you just are not friends with girls at all. Doesn't really work out too great for a good social life.
     
  8. I don't have female friends, unless of course they are lesbians. Makes life so much easier.
     
  9. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    I have a lot of guy friends (and a bf) and they've told me how great it is to have a chick friend that they know is off limits. I've got a boyfriend so they've completely ruled me out as an option but I've got chick friends that I bring to group stuff so they get to meet new people.

    If you feel like you can be friends with girls and not want anything more then go for it. It couldn't hurt and you get the chance to meet her friends...
     
  10. antihero

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  11. antihero

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    the more girls you know, the better.

    obviously you don't want to get interested or waste much time or attention, but ALWAYS knowing more people > less.

    girls have friends, roomates, mostly girl parties....
     
  12. iceman1123

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    girl......friends? what for, in case you run out of tampons?
     
  13. MattThom01

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    Don't a lot of couples hang out with mostly other couples?
     
  14. antihero

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    some people actually still stay fully functional people even when they have a SO.
     
  15. antihero

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    no it doesnt. work on having women in your life. It will increase your comfort level with women, knowledge, social proof, pool of available women...

    there is no downside as long as you arn't wanting some girl constantly who doesn't want you.
     
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    Hang out with their BF's but not the GF's.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I know the girl he is referring to, and let me just say to you Elite, you need to cut that bitch out of your life. She is fucking crazy guys....I mean purely insane. She's this 19 year old immature slut that uses him just to make her boyfriend jealous. I don't see any good in hanging out with this girl because she's still not introducing you to any of her friends. She's just going to keep using you as bait to upset her boyfriend, not set you up with anyone.
     
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    Not knowing the situation I would say that it really depends on a lot of factors. With a jealous BF the shit probably won't fly. If the couple is attached at the hip and only hang with each other there is no point...etc...etc.
     
  19. iceman1123

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    :rofl: faggots who feed into and enable womens stupid games should be sterilized
     
  20. ^^^^^You're wierd as shit man, you need to tone down the wierdness. :rofl:
     
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    Who said anything about ex'es? I say never be friends with an ex, but sure be friends with someone with an SO.
     
  22. BradUF

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    I used to have the exact same out look as beast but now I am starting to think more like XaPu!M. The more girls, the better. If you hang around nothing but guys then all you are going to know is guys.

    My whole life I have had the policy of only talking to single girls. If they had a boyfriend I didn't give them any attention at all.
     
  23. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    :werd: the best way to get comfortable talking to girls is to be friends with girls in the first place. that way you talk to them all the time, and its not such a big deal when you talk to one you want. the more experiance the better.
     
  24. antihero

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    you still only give attention to single girls. girls with BF's have to earn it.
     
  25. jackjohnson

    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    i hang out a lot with my roommate and his g/f. were all friends. The thing I noticed is that couples (especially long term ones) are pretty much only friends with other couples. She has tried to hook me up a few times but they were ugly ass girls.

    It can be fun because they love to go on double dates and shit like that, but you're much better off supplying your own date if you know what I mean
     

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