How do you seduce a straight guy into gay sex? Is it possible? I don't want to force it upon him (my secret crush from work). I also don't want to get him drunk for it or be otherwise deceptive. We are not close by any means. If I asked him directly I'm sure it would spook him and I wouldn't want it to get out at work if it backfired. I haven't told him I'm gay but it's pretty obvious that I am though maybe not to him. A couple more complications: he's only 19...which means I'm well over twice his age. Also, he lives with a girl, but he never refers to her as a girlfriend but refers to her by name. He seems to me to be too much of a pretty boy (metro?) to be straight, and I even overheard him called a fag by another guy, sort of in a tone of a "joke" but not really. But anyway, how do you get a straight guy? I always go for the straights (uh...in my mind that is) because the flamers that walk with a swish and talk with a lisp don't do it for me.