My girlfriend of 5 years is on the pill. *ortho tri-cyclen* So the problem is, her sex drive has been really low for two months. meaning I've have zero nooky for two months. I know how I am, and honestly, I'm probably rated high in the boyfriend scale. So its not like she is holding out, she just isn't interested, she says her sex drive is gone. And I know she isn't cheating on me, we aren't like that. I think its her pill, so I'm going to ask her to switch to the patch, or maybe ask her to try "Xzite". Which is what I'm wondering aobut; have any of the ladies here tried that out to boost your libido? Thanks for the help. I have a feeling nobody is going to respond.