Hey everyone. Well long story short I'm 23 and I haven't gotten laid in 3 years now. 3 years back I was doing pretty good with the ladies. I got into a 6 month relationship with a girl who I honestly loved, but she dumped me. She would later tell me the real reason was because she wanted to get married ASAP and I always said I wanted to wait until I was atleast 25. I did not take this very well, her being the only girl I ever loved. Especially since she immediately started dating another guy (after saying she wasn't ready for a serious relationship) and they quickly got engaged. So I got into a really deep funk, stopped being sociable, gained weight, etc etc. I did have one girl I saw for a little while, but she was intolerably stupid so I basically just used the shit of her to get laid and then dumped her. So I decided to take some "me time". And that's where I've been ever sense. I still feel like shit, I'm still fat. I haven't gone out on a date or so much as kissed a girl in the past 3 years...and I go to college! I really don't know what to do. I haven't gotten to know any girl that I am interested in or get to know well enough to call a friend. I spend most of my time at home by myself and occasionally hang out with my friends. I want to get back to being sociable and attract women, but I'm so deep in this rut I don't know how to get back out. Advice?