Last year my dad had me come in and setup a company to deal with his holdings(because he didn't feel up to it alone). I currently have two other companies of my own. Well, he was supposed to transistion everything over to me over three years as I learned the ins and outs of the company. About six months in he completely fell apart, its been getting worse and worse. Working with him today I noticed he was having huge issues with memory and even communicating properly, his hands were always shaking too. The business and their personal financial docs and money management are trashed. He sorta lost it and was afraid to ask for help. The man is my idol, he has a Masters from MIT. I tried to recruit my older sister to help but she completely lost, has broken down crying the last four times I talked to her. I talked to my mom and she is a complete wreck too. There is no one else in my family that has it together. We also take care of my grandma 92, bed ridden, blind and has progressive dementia. I went to his office to try to make some sense out of everything. Every piece of information for my entire family was just massed in huge stacks with little or no organization. I found thousands apon thousands of pass due bills and checks for big $$$ that were never deposited covering years. Taxes are screwed to say the least. Mongollian cluster fuck. I am 25, single.. have my shit together. House, car etc... but holy shit my entire family decided to fall over on me. Its all I can do to not just break down and . I hired a few people to help me to start sorting through it, but the rammifications for the tax issues and bills are almost uncomprehensible at this point. And the two most important people in my life are just in pieces, I am very concerned my dad might be experiancing the onset of alzhiemers, which runs strong in my family. I am a tough son of a bitch. But I am only one man. I just don't know what to do, with the family, businesses, etc.. what I do effects 44 lives. I can't fuck up. There is no room for it. Oh a huge loan comes to term that we are jointly liable for in 4 weeks too. So yeah.... Cliffs: have to pick up my family before they lose everything. or blow up in the process.