what would you guys consider a ""healthy sex drive" for a 20/21 yr old in a relationship? 1 time a week? more or less? my gf and I have been going out for a year and a half, both lost our vriginity to eachother but never have sex more than 1 time a week (sometimes sex once and everything but sex once), and i feel as tho I could do it every day. Is one time a week really abnormal or am i just surrounded by horny people? Is there a trend based upon age, like women have greatest sex drive at 23-25 and guys at 18-22 or something like that? I donno, just looking for some opinions...also suggestions as to how these numbers could increase..talking to her about it makes her upset cause she feels stressed about getting her period every month, even tho we use condoms, i donno if the pill would help ease her mind, i really dont think it would, prolly woul just decrease her sex drive even more?