Discussion in 'On Topic' started by sectachrome, Jul 22, 2006.
I seriously NEED to. Its fucking me up and Im sick of it.
I would say, go masturbate, then call up you guy friends that you probably ditched a long time ago for this girl and go hunting.
masturbating doesnt work, trust me.
Is it a plumbing problem, or a mental block?
I was more or less kidding. Though the fact that I usually end up thinking about her probably doesnt help.
Heres a short version:
Ive known her for 3 years. Liked her since the moment I saw her. Were best friends (yeah, I know...). I love her. She doesnt feel the same. I cant get over her and I recognize that its doing me no good and want to change this.
Try hard to meet other women and keep yourself busy.
Im trying to get over my ex right now. I notice I have alot easier time and dont think about him as much when I am out with people and doing alot...I guess i just have less time to think.
The hardest part is the fact that you really can't do much about how she feels. She has her heart set and its not feeling for you, and no matter how much you dream of it, reality kicks in. I don't think it'd be good for you to stay friends with her and feel that way for her. It'll make you feel even more down.
its called time
Yeah. But time is only going to work if you cut her off. Trust me man it's not worth it. I did the same thing as you except for about 2.5 years. After you cut her off you'll realize that you could h ave done it a long time ago. It becomes so much easier after a month or two. Just do yourself a favor and tell her it's better you guys stop talking.