Long story short, she lost feelings and it was unexplainable on her part - she even acknowledged that nothing changed between us. She's young, and has huge commitments, and it was random because she felt this way a week before school started again, and a month before that she came up and was perfect. it's been four days since she dumped me, and she was my first long term serious girlfriend. Both admitted to having thoughts of continuing it for a long time. She denied friends with benefits, but wants to stay friends, close friends. I told her okay, but I haven't talked to her since we had our last post-breakup closure conversation. My 3 questions... 1) How does someone lose feelings? Apparantly this came happen for no reason. 2) Would cutting communication win her back? 3) Side question, a group of girls and you're without a wingman. Method of approach?