ive had an issue with not being able to control the cash i've spent on my boyfriend lately. I know he hates it... especially when i put 20s in his pocket for dinner or movies..etc. He accepts it bitterly since he lost his job a few weeks ago.. and we're getting ready to go back to school anyway. Besides the fact that i'm growing broke.. i'm pretty sure it's shoots his confidence down a bit. It's not so easy to "just stop"- since we did all these things when we could take turns paying. Any advice?