I am going to make this as short as possible. So me and my roomate are great friends, we got lucky. Everyone told us were like the exact same person. We live roughly 20 minutes from each other. So i met his ex girlfriend. She came up to college for a weekend. We started talking on the internet, and when i went on christmas vacation, we started hanging out on the weekends because she still went to school. I started falling for her hardcore. ITs funny how the laws of attraction work. I really "love" this girl. I use the word love losely, since i have never had a girlfriend in my entire life. We have many things in common. I basically told her i liked her right before i left back to college. She said she needed more time to get to know me. So we still text each other and we talk on the internet a lot. Sometimes i will call her, or she will call me. We are both long distant valentines this year. I just get really fusterated because i dont want to hurt my roomates feelings and i know he doesnt care much for her but they still talk. And when they do talk i get really depressed because they may be talking about me......i have no idea. I am just very depressed at this point. I want to cut off the relationship with her, but i know i will feel really really sad and depressed...i mean really depressed. Let me know what i should do.