So this is my first time posting over here, I would have in the Vag, but it seems like they all have the same answer for this problem and I want to see if anyone thinks differently. I moved to michigan from florida in january, and I found a guy on myspace(or he found me, I do not remember now), but we lived right down the road from each other and talked for a little bit before we first hung out. Well, our relationship turned into a Friends with benefits type deal, although he treats me like a girlfriend. We both wouldn't have sex with anyone else, and he is turning down all sorts of girls that want him. He texts me during his work to tell me what hes up to that night, and he always calls me on the way home, and when he is out an about, he always tells me what hes up to. When he wakes up in the morning, I get a IM from him right away, and usually we spend the day either talking online or with each other. He takes me to breakfast and lunch, and always wants to take me along with any errands he is running that day. (yesterday he took me to get GTA 4 and for breakfast, home depot, and the mall for getting his apple laptop cord and went with me to get makeup).. He spends time with me even if it doesn't mean we are going to have sex, and he will snuggle with me on the couch when we watch movies or tv or such. He tells me I am cute, and laughs at my jokes and such. He is also the one who introduced me to OT after showing me a bunch of funny pictures off of here. I was originally moving to cali to be with my dad, so we were just going to be short lived, but he is now moving back here, so I am not going anywhere. I have also started to develop feelings for him, he's unlike every guy i have been with, and he is SUPER SUPER smart, which i love. I am also not sure if this is how FWB usually goes.. I thought it was basically just sex and not much else, and you def didnt keep tabs with the person all the time. My other guy friends say I should just talk to him and tell him how I feel, but I am deeply afraid of getting rejected and loosing all that we do have, because i really enjoy his company and I enjoy the time we spend together and our conversations. I have also told a guy before how i felt and he sort of stopped contact with me slowly. I don't want this to happen at all. And I am so afraid of being rejected after it has happened over and over again. I am not a bad looking girl, and I have been told I have an awesome personality, but I have such a hard time finding a guy that wants to be with me, and I think they are all looking for the model type that media has portrayed as perfect. So.. any suggestions on how to handle this? Should I tell him how I feel? is there a good way to go about this that will not put everything on the line? Am I wrong in thinking that i am getting treated differently than any other FWB girl? Or should I just not say anything and wait it out? I am so confused about this, so any suggestions would help a lot and be much appreciated.