Ok heres the deal, a good friend of mine was raped by her father when she was 9. She has always had trust issue since then. She has also always seen the male figures in her life walking in and out adding to the lack of trust issues. Her past boyfriends have never been very respectful towards her and she seems to gravitate towards the same type of person. My thinking is that its because thats what she knows, and doesnt know how to handle a different ind of person. Today she tells me that shes never really had an orgasm and has always faked it. She said that she is numb in her privates and whenever having sex she can't help but think of what happened to her. Do you guys have any suggestions for helping her overcome this? Thanks for any help.