Here's the scenario: you've been out of the closet for quite some time. Your confident and comfortable in who you are. Someone comes to you, who is just discovering who they are. They are realizing they are gay, and trying to figure out the best ways of dealing with it. They realize they are entering a new type of world and they're feeling unsure about it and somewhat scared. They come to you for advice. What is the best advice you could give them that you feel would be the most helpful to them?