Prob 1. ive been seeing my girlfriend for like 4 months and she has a hard time staying wet while we have sex. she thinks its becasue she had a kid a year ago and eversince then she says its been like this Prob 2. sometimes i have a hard time keeping it up if we have had some good hard sex. just everyonce once in a while though. maybe once a month is there an herbal remedy to either of our problems? id rather not take some scientists formula, but a more natural solution.. any ideas?