hm. so i appear to be in the middle of a cliche internet relationship!

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  1. mikerpiker

    mikerpiker Wicked Individual

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    a girl messaged me semi-randomly yesterday morning on facebook, and we ended up having a flirtatious little chat on gmail.

    we talked a fair amount today as well. she is 9 years older than me (19 and 28) and she lives in Cambridge while I live in Vancouver. she's not exceptionally attractive (kinda fat) but i still would absolutely hit it.

    in the afternoon today i began to think that maybe this whole thing was a little.. unhealthy.. I was starting to actually get excited about talking to her!

    So i sent her an email explaining why i didn't think i should talk to her anymore. She sent me an email back saying that she too has an "internet crush" on me, and that she "completely changed [her] mind -- who says
    it has to stay on the on the internet."

    She included in her email 3 pictures of her, one of which shows her top half in what looks to be a bra.

    Then she sent another email giving the details of a trip to Vancouver she would be making because of school. She had mentioned it earlier chats, but in this email she gave me the exact dates.

    She also added, in that email, that she knew it was a long time but hinted at cyber sexing and "who knows."


    :eek3::eek3::eek3::eek3:


    I'm totally conflicted because... one part of me realizes this is probably a very unhealthy thing to get into...

    but the other part of me is an 19 year old virgin who wants to try for any shot he might have, and wants 4 months of internet foreplay as well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    what should i do?

    sorry, i'm not gonna post pics of her.
     
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  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    don't do it.
    you're going to ignore all other women for 4 months because some fat girl on the internet might visit you at some point in the future? sounds stupid.
     
  3. mikerpiker

    mikerpiker Wicked Individual

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    well i'd still be making every possible effort to get with real girls throughout the whole period
     
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    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i doubt you will when you've already got one waiting for you.
     
  5. Durka Durka

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    been there, don't do it.
     
  6. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    Don't chat with her now, but tell her to call you whenever she comes to your town.
     
  7. DubOverdose

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    Don't do it. She's probably just really horny and knows that younger people are easy.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :hsugh: Would you really?
     
  9. mikerpiker

    mikerpiker Wicked Individual

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    nah, Cambridge, MA. she's a harvard grad student
    :noes:
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Don't talk to her very much or at all until she's supposedly coming to see you. If you even had a chance in the first place she'd still want to see you on her trip. If in the meantime you don't just give up and start waiting for her, but instead keep trying to get local women, then it sounds good.
     
  11. FoxyKrista

    FoxyKrista New Member

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    Internet relationships are gay. Say you do meet her right, and its a one time thing. Then you get attatched and she does too right. Then you will only get to see eachother once in a blue moon. If she is even who she says shes being. She could be a 45 year old dude... It's not that hard to get someone elses pics right.. ie. myspace and shit.. so i dont suggest it
     
  12. Durka Durka

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    all those cliche points that will never happen aside, it's still a bad idea. meeting a girl on the internet = guarenteed basket case.
     
  13. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    false.
     
  14. kamen

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    I've been there. Don't do it. It might seem great in the beginning but in the long run it's going to drive you nuts.
     
  15. ass_kicker32

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    proof = iwishyouwerebeer
     
  16. sportsjunkie

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    not really :o

    sometimes the internet is a good outlet for people to meet one another
    same thing as meeting someone randomly
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :hsugh: Good one :ugh2:
     
  18. Durka Durka

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    yeah, because you haven't met her and i doubt she'd be stupid enough to want to.
     
  19. de7h

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    been there is it worth waiting all that time for a quick fuck then to never see or talk to each other again. I've done it more than 5 times taking trips to San Deigo, San Francisco, Arizona, UK just to meet girls...and odd thing is when I took a trip to AZ she came back with me and we are still together but 1 out of 5 is not good...
     
  20. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    fuck her for sure.. at 19 in general you need to get that shit out of the way....healthy or not doesnt matter.. just dont go crazy and propose to her or something.
     
  21. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    why ignore 4 months worth of women? play the field you are a young man...
     
  22. Viper

    Viper I live in the shadows OT Supporter

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    Here's a post I made in another thread about internet relationships. Just realize them for what they are...FLINGS, and you'll be fine. Nothing wrong with having fun with someone you meet off the net, so long as you are SAFE.

     
  23. Viper

    Viper I live in the shadows OT Supporter

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    Oh, and make her agree to an open relationship until you at least meet once or twice.

    That way you don't have to ignore the girls that are around you for a possible pipe dream on the net.
     
  24. NCS

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    you have to see this person soon if you want to pursue it

    get off the internet ASAP and get on the phone.

    try and meet in the very near future.
     
  25. fluentinsilence

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    Pretty much.
     

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