To save you from background stories, i've been going out with this girl for 9 months now. Recently, shes been working a ton, and both of us went away at separate times in March for 3 weeks total. While i was away, every night the text messages (corny i know...yeah) got pretty racy and we'd talk about the things we'd be able to do when i was home etc. When both of us were home, we were talking about having sex sometime around my birthday. That didnt happen and since the 3 days we spent together between our trips, she hasnt wanted to do anything when I'm with her. She still talks all the time saying how bad she wants me etc., but when I go to her house, she wont even let my hand wander near that region. Its been almost a month now and I'm wondering what the hell is going on. It mixes me all up when one night she'll be saying how much fun we're going to have the next night, then i get there and nothing ever happens. I dont even get anything in return...any comments or suggestions? She did just get her period again so maybe that has something to do with it, but I'm just so confused. Its not like we're doing anything new, and sex will probably happen sometime soon, but I just don't get it.