is it just me or do you guys find hook ups pointless? the reason i ask this is there is this girl i like. i asked her out but she doesnt want a relationship however she said she wants to be friends with benefits or hook up buddies. when we kiss it feels so empty because there isnt any real emotion to back it up it is just simply a 'hook up'. i asked her why she doesnt want a relationship and she said its because she is young and just wants to have fun but i dont see the fun in this. is anyone else like me or am i weird?