ok. ive been with the same girl for 3.5 years. we recently broke up, because i had discovered she had had some msn convos with a bloke, that i really wish didnt happen. it is absolutely killing me. i miss her so damn much, and i still love her, despite this. she is in the same boat. we have spoken about it in great detail, and i am willing to overlook it, and take her back if she can prove that this will never happen again... the big question, from both of us sitting here, is how can she prove this? we cant think of anything. we both miss each other like crazy, we still talk a lot, and have slept together since, but me being a stubborn bastard that i am, do not want to suffer that pain ever again. i need proof! how can she do this OT? please help!