edit: title was supposed to be "how common is it for girls to bitch about...." dunno what happened there. Is it even a red flag anymore when you are 27 and girls start bitching about being unmarried? "my younger sister just got married and now my whole family thinks im a loser.... etc" I mean I hear it and my first reaction is that I'm not even dating you yet and you are already making me want to run like a pack of vicious commitment wolves are after me. On the other hand, societal norms really don't make it all that unusual... right? she also just casually mentioned that sometimes she will have sex like once a year. This girl is pretty and fun, but man does she suck at getting a date. if you were me would you take her out? keeping in mind I have absolutely no interest in marriage at all and a huge interest in having sex within a reasonable 2-3 dates. maybe 4.