no kids, no serious financial involvement together, but we did move several hundred miles away to go to college together, living in an apartment. our lease is up in about a month, I'm the renter, she's just listed as an occupant. We've lived together for almost 3 years, and im 21. This relationship probably should have been over a while ago, i haven't been happy with her for some time. how do i get out without causing lots of pain? anyone been through a similar situation?