I've been knowing/talking to this girl on and off for some odd 3 years now. Jan 1, 2005 we made it "official". The thing is, throughout all of the ups and downs, I just don't know if I can really trust her. I mean, she hasn't really done anything that would make me question her integrity, but she has had a rough past with her ex (abusive, treated her like shit, controlling, etc....it goes a lot deeper). Not like that has anything to do with it. I guess I may just be a little insecure. I'm just so confused. I really want to be with her, and she really is a nice girl, I just need like something....one sign, signal, action, or whatever to know that I can actually be totally 100% into her. Anyone?