i should start by saying i'm a fairly overweight fellow but over the course of the last 3 months, i've lost 40 pounds. i still find myself very far from attractive but it's been commented by a few females close to me that my confidence seems to have gone up. i guess this possibly could cause women to see me differently but i have no clue. i have, however, noticed an increase in attention. so how do i know? it doesn't matter much, anyway since i'm married but i am just curious.