Discussion in 'On Topic' started by AF Rugby, Aug 14, 2007.
to get back with my ex?
if you broke up, you gotta examine why you did it, cuz there's probably a good reason (or at least a substantial enough one) for it. that being said, i probably wouldn't get back together, b/c for all you know, the same reason you broke up in the first place could come back to bite you in the ass (esp. if there was a trust issue)
if you feel the need to ask, it's not the time. Stop worrying about your ex, go find new women.
Length of relationship? Reason/circumstance of break up? Length spent broken up? Ages? Etc...
did she dump you?
sorry for the wait..
Here is the info.. We met when we were both 17, (both 23now) we dated a couple times and nothing ever came of it, and then when we were both 20, we dated up until about 6 months ago.. and i broke it off cause i wanted some space.. Shes a great girl, i've dated a little bit since we broke up, but seems like no one can really make me smile like she does.. There was no real issues.. I see her maybe 2 - 3 times a week.. She sleeps over sometimes but there is no sex or kissing..
Of course, seeing her makes me want to get back together, but whats to say i wont want space again???
Since you have doubts, don't try getting back together with her. Simple.
It depends on why you wanted the space.
If you wanted it because you were too smothering with each otehr and you've since learned how to give each other the space you need while still maintaining a relationship, then fucking go for it.
If you wanted space for some other reason.. ie.. you're fickle, or she's got some flaw that you can't see past.. keep moving
it is a no go. i know in my heart that my ex and i could never work out ever again, no matter how much time has passed. we are just two completely different people than what we were when we met and were together. i've grown up in ways that he hasn't, and vice versa.
it's just best to keep it where it is, and eventually fade everything out.