My SO's brother is heading over for his first tour of the sandbox, and she asked me to talk to him last night. What do you say? It felt the same as talking to a civilian who never chewed dirt. All I kept wanting to do was smack him and yell "Grow a Fucking Pair, It's your job!" He's scared about going over, and having to do his job, plus his wife is being a royal bitch. We brought him out here (He is stationed in CA, we live in PA) to get away for a bit, now he is looking for every reason to go back because he doesn't think he has his shit squared away enough to get deployed. I mean if it were me, I'd rather party with my brother & sister and their friends then stay home and be bitched at by a fucked up wife.