MIL How do you deal with loss?

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  1. Sirc

    Sirc Dr. Hourse Crew #1

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    I was just wondering how you military folks deal with the loss of a fellow soldier while on the battlefield? What do they tell you to do?
     
  2. dura

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    As shitty as it seems, it's the only option.
     
  3. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    honor his memory by continuing the mission he can no longer perform.
     
  4. USMC7684

    USMC7684 Well-Known Member

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    In all honesty I never thought much about it until the mission we were on was over. After we completed it is when it sunk in but even at that we never had much time to sit and think about it. It never really bothered me too much until I came home.
     
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    Couldn't have said it better.
     
  6. Accord

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    Revenge.

    That's all i'm gonna say, and anyone who tells you anything else is full of shit.
     
  7. TRN

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    Most people have a hard time being open about it.

    The military mental health system needs A TON of help.
     
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    Drunk Bastard Audio New Member

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    Everyone deals with loss differently.
     
  9. EBK

    EBK Hate hippies & hadjis

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    revenge wont bring my Brothers back, but i know it'll make em smile
     
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    Holy shit :eek3::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:
     
  11. GND

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  13. SirBoss7

    SirBoss7 Life is a tragedy to those who feel and a comedy t

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    Thanks.. it sucks hardcore. I can still hear him being a jackass and all. :sad2:
     
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    I can't even imagine how it is in combat, but I remember the stories my brother would tell about being over there.. *sigh* :(

    Do they ever make you guys seek therapy when you come back to the States?
     
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    brackac Fuck all of this. OT Supporter

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    I have been shocked by how easily people in the Aviation community talk about their co-workers and friends that have died. I'm not sure if it's the frequency that has made them numb, or if they have just accepted the fact that it is going to happen. Either way, I get an uneasy feeling whenever the "story" sessions begin. Still don't understand what Aviators love talking about crashes.
     
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    When my brother came back from Afghanistan and Iraq they briefed everyone when they came back, dunno if every unit does this, but it seemed to help him and his buddies alot.
     
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    Appreciate where your coming from man but I can't agree and personally I think if you continue feeling that way you should probably seek some help once you come back.

    And no I'm not full of shit but thanks. :hs:
     
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    they did for my unit, I don't know if everyone does
     
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    Jyokker The trouser snake is very aggressive. It will corn

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    Do you think it helped?
     
  23. GND

    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    Yeah, they did it everytime he came back.
    He was in for 9 years soo i'm not sure if the longer you're in the more ablility to possibly become more fucked up you can possibly get :dunno:

    His wife told me he was getting extra help as well. He had issues sleeping at time among other things. He had some meds that is therapist or whoever gave him, but never got the chance to take them.
     
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    Mine got out for his PTSD, now he's on 30% disability.
     
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    you are a female, time for some noodz. Its part of my healing process
     

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