I'm at a crossroads with this girl that I've been involved with off and on for years. Things were starting to look up the last couple of months, but lately she tells me she wants to hang, then avoids me and doesn't call me back. I guess what really bothers me is that there is no passion. I get a kiss goodbye everytime we hang but in four months of dating that's it. Keep in mind that me and this girl used to have sex 3 to 4 times a week when we were together. I guess I don't want to keep thinking theres something there if there isn't, and the bad thing is that she won't really talk to me about it. I would really like to date someone right now, because I miss the affection and the comfort of it. What do you guys think?