How do you make a girl go crazy for your attention?

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  1. Balzak

    Balzak Active Member

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    I read the other post here about the push-pull tactics. But what do you guys do to make a girl you're interested in go crazy? How do YOU get into her head to affect her?
     
  2. MattThom01

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    She has to be somewhat interested in you in the first place. There is no way that one guy can gt EVERY girl interested in him...so id this a girl you know has some interest in you, or is it some grl you just want to get?
     
  3. Balzak

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    We kissed on the beach the other week. But I know she's playing hard to get. A few days ago, she tells me that she has feelings for me, then the next day I see her with a group of friends and she acts oblivious. Perhaps this is appropriate since she just got out of a long term relationship. It seemed that she was only oblivious until I took my attention off of her and talked to another girl, to which she then sat next to me and flirted.
     
  4. Balzak

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    It seems as if I'm scrutinizing a lot about how much she calls me and trying to find that perfect balance. Thing is, she knows how to drive me crazy, but I just don't show it, haha
     
  5. Balzak

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    Thing is...I've been having trouble getting her to go out with me alone. It's always with a group of friends. I invited her to the ballet, and she gave me the 50/50 thing and ended up declining because she hasn't fully healed from her last relationship. I know healing is important, but at the same time I want her to realize that it's okay to hang out and have a great time together.

    Someone suggested making sure I laughed at other girls jokes and making them laugh in return - I guess jealousy is a powerful tool?
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If you want to play games then go right ahead. Acting interested one minute and then ignoring her almost always does the trick.
     
  7. PocoDiablo

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    Cocky funny. Cocky funny. Repeat after me ....

    The whole point is to be somewhat of an uninterested JOKING dickhead.

    The fact that she won't be alone with you means you're not attractive to her. Buying her tickets to the ballet = big failure. Trying to buy her time. I cannot tell you how bad that is.

    Go sign up over at www.DoubleYourDating.com on the home page and then wait for his emails to trickle in. Read them all. Follow his strategies for a start.
     
  8. BiGDoGGy4EvEr

    BiGDoGGy4EvEr Active Member

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    Treat a girl like shit and she's hooked 4 life
     
  9. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    bull fucking shit. There are ways to make a girl interested in you, who isn't initialy
     
  10. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    Bullshit. "Seduction" material, just like any other material focused on getting women, is "how can I get the generic women. Now apply that to this one."

    It is the emotional neediness coming through that occurs when someone is obsessed with "that one girl" that makes him lose the girl. It is not a problem with wanting to know how to get good with girls in general.
     
  11. Chip Chipperson

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    Not necessarily an attraction problem.

    And Cocky Funny has been shown to be counterproductive when used too much after the first 10 minutes of an interaction (except with low self esteem girls)
     
  12. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    And what if you are a superstar with your life all together, you have plenty of money, a healthy social circle, and are incredibly healthy, and you still can't get laid? What then? just make more improvements in your life? BullSHIT. Girls don't just throw themselves at you and escalate and seduce you because you have your life together. not unless you're a celebrity.

    Your quest for self improvement has made you lose touch with the fact that having sex with girls feels good and is a goal worth pursuing. It is no different than pursuing the goal "I want to be good at basketball" and should not be treated as some sort of zen thing. It's having sex with girls. Nothing more, nothing less.
     
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  13. Chip Chipperson

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    Uhmm, yes, yes it does. It is exactly what my life was like. And I have seen it happen to plenty of other people. Just because having a shitty life and having shitty skills with women are correlated does not mean when you get your life together, you will get top quality women (or any women)

    I can't believe you're even saying that
     
  14. Chip Chipperson

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    Getting girls is a SKILLSET. Period.
     
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    Your viewpoint is that if you get your life together, the women will follow.

    Your viewpoint has been proven wrong by the bazillions of guys out there who have good lives but don't know the technical and tactical ways to get the women they desire, and must resign themselves to getting into a relationship with girls who throw themselves at the guy because he accidentally did the right things to attract her. The guy does not have choice in women, and he is successful only insofar as that can be called successful
     
  16. Chip Chipperson

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    ...no... it doesn't. The guys who are in that place... well they have developed the skills necessary to get the lifestyle and the social circle, haven't they? And they still don't get laid.

    You are blindly and wrongly attempting to rationalize your emotional belief that you don't have to try to get girls in order to get girls. It has been objectively proven to be wrong, time and again. You are wrong. It is ok. use this as a learning experience
     
  17. Chip Chipperson

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    I agree. Unfortunately you did a piss poor job of communicating this at first
     
  18. Easy. Ignore her.
     

  19. When she plays games like this is exactly when you withdraw your attention. She is nothing special. Just another slut to dump a load or two into. Make her keenly aware of this attitude.

    She will then, as if by magic, give you everything you ever dreamed of. Seriously, sort of.
     
  20. Balzak

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    Viper, JKidd5, XaPU!M....what's your take on this?
     
  21. Motherfucking . :bowdown:

    You saw how she acted. Ignored you till you ignored her, to get what you want, you must treat her the way she treated you. Women love to be ignored.
     
  22. StopDrop&LOL

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    Good stuff Viper...i agree 100% :bigthumb:
     
  23. NCS

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    look at how she's making you go crazy, posting on forums etc...

    thats what you should be doing.
     
  24. Balzak

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    What's what I should be doing?
     
  25. NCS

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    guess i wasnt clear enough. take a step back and observe all the stuff she's doing (mixed signals, showing vs. not showing interest, the timing of her actions, etc). she's having the effect on you that you should be having on her. she is therefore a walking, talking example of what you should be doing.
     

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