SRS How do you move on?

Discussion in 'On Topic' started by J12P, Dec 5, 2005.

  1. J12P

    J12P Guest

    After 10 years my boyfriend and I have called it quits. I am having a very difficult time with the whole situation. We have been together since high school, so obviously I have not been in any other serious relationships. I guess I am very lost on were to start picking up the pieces of my own life and begin the healing process. If things are not hard enough we are still living together and will be for probably another six months, which makes things that much harder. How do you move on when you still live with someone you love?
  2. RyeBread

    RyeBread If you tell the truth you don't have to remember a

    Mar 16, 2000
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    tough question to answer.

    I'm not sure I could move on if I were still living with said person. Especially if the break up isn't really mutual, which if you still love him I'm guessing that it's not really mutual.

    there are some of the healing processes that probably won't really begin until you are completely separated, physically, financially etc.
  3. J12P

    J12P Guest

    We just want different things out of life and attraction has diminished. We still love each other, but he wants one thing and I want another. There is no compromising either. Neither of us is going to change. The thing that makes things so difficult is that there is not animosity between us we get along great.
  4. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

    Oct 8, 2002
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    Well, is there any possibility to a healing glue attempt? I mean 10 years isn't nothing, its a sad thing to fall apart but you have to row with the peddles you have in life. And trying to extract those things from life that bring you happyness, and being beware not to fall in the hands of some godawfull guy that reduces your life to smithereens even more.
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