heres the background: I have been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks now. She had a boyfriend the whole time, so nothing happened between us, but we both knew that if there was no boyfriend involved, we would click really easily. This entire semester, her boyfriend has been at home, taking the semester off because he was sick. Because of me, the long distance thing, and a number of other problems, she broke up with him on saturday morning. That night, we were hanging out, and started watching a movie. No more than 10 minutes into the movie we start making out, and that's where it stops. Sunday morning, my roommate leaves for a week on some ROTC trip, leaving the room to myself for a week. Last night, we again start making out, etc. She wanted to get some sleep, so she left my room around 1 in the morning, but says she might surprise me in the middle of the night. She comes back at around 4 and sleeps here the rest of the night, we fool around, and she gives me head. I am a virgin (18), she is not (her only other sexual partner has been her ex boyfriend). I am not so sure I want to have sex with her just yet. I know I would like to eventually, but this is moving kind of fast for me. What do I do if she wants to have sex soon? I am taking her out to dinner tomorrow night, and then a movie in my room, and she could want to as soon as that night. What do I do if that's the case? I feel awkward telling her I don't want to just yet. Just man up and say it? Also, she has been keeping our relationship kind of secret. We live on the same floor, so we have the same friends, and she doesn't want everyone finding out about it yet, partially because it will cause a lot of drama, and because it will get back to her ex, who is taking their break up hard (she is a sophomore, her and her ex boyfriend lived on the same floor last year, and there are other sophomores that are friends with him, her, me, etc). What do i do Sorry for the length Cliffs: Girl might want to have sex with me sooner than I want to have sex with her.