My friend last year dated this chick that over several months he ended blowing ~$5000 (cell phone, remodeled her room, ect ect) Well within that few months she started talking to her ex and eventually she broke up with him. Well he went over to her house to pickup the stuff rolleyes: right before this incident he was making himself sick ) well they refused to give it to him so out of anger he punched her car and cracked the windshield (he grew up in an abusive home and i always tried to focus his anger elsewhere *me* to keep him in check but i wasn't around this time) well this landed him a night in the slammer, ~$700 for court fees and windshield fees and a restraining order (only applied if she told him to leave then she could call the cops. that being said she has the power to make up stuff and totally screw him over) well he kept being all puppies eyes with her saying "its not her fault" and "she still cares about me" when the whole time he was in the cop car she and her bf and his friend laughed at him. well eventually ties between the two cut for a while but he almost got in trouble again when they were both at a friends house (one sister invited the girl, other sister invited robert) well she called the cops for whatever reasons but the cops did nothing because he was there under the invite of the older sister. well she continued texting him rude stuff. She would say stuff like go to hell and tell your mom i said hi and crap like that. (prior to this his mother died of cancer and after this we have had a friend die of drowning. Last year sucked) eventually after ignoring her she left him alone... Well about half a year has past and (she has had BFs come and go screwed them then took their money) shes starting to call him again and last night i'm afraid that he may have spent the night at her house. all of my friends are clueless of what to do............ you figured he would learn his lesson but he is so stubborn that he don't want to see the truth. Do you guys have any ideas on what i should do?