I met this guy recently and we've been texting a lot.. he came over to my house last night, and we were going to start watching a movie, but we ended up talking the whole time instead while the movie was playing. I can tell that we have a lot of chemistry and we have really good conversations.. when he left we hugged and he looked like he wanted to kiss me.. I just went back in for a hug and let him kiss me on the head. I feel like there could be possible potential here and I don't want to take things too fast... when would be a good point to let him kiss me?-- ( I want him to know that I'm interested in more than just a hook up ), and if he tries to kiss me and I don't want to yet, how do I not kiss him without him thinking I'm not interested?.... I have had this dilemma way too many times in the past and I figure it's time to ask for advice. I would really appreciate to hear both male and female perspectives on this..