ANONYMOUS POST My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. Although we were both physically intimate with one another, we never went so far as to have had sex yet for several reasons. This was mostly because I just wasn't feeling comfortable or ready. Said boyfriend has always been very patient of this up until about a month ago. And as of yesterday, he decided to break up with me because he couldn't wait for me any longer. He told me I am a minority among girls in the way that I feel nervous/scared/uncomfortable in wanting to have sex. He told me it's not normal. Also said that sex is something he "deserves" after 'putting up' with and waiting with me for so long. Is this logical at all or am I just going crazy here? I understand and respect the fact that he is frustrated and that it is something he wants, but at the same time it is something I am not ready for. He says if I respected him, I'd fix my 'problem' and have sex with him, but I say that if he respected ME, he'd be able to wait regardless of the time it took for that to happen. Am I in the wrong here or is he just being selfish?