How lonely is everyone here? I know some of you married folk may have different answers. I'm asking the typical average person. Since highschool 95% of my friends got involved with weed - I didn't want to get involved in that crowd. Now that I'm in community college, its hard to find people with the same goals and morals I have. Its hard to find other friends really serious about their futures and those are the only people i really want to surround myself with. Will this change when I transfer to a university? I have friends - I'm by no means friendless, but I went from hanging out with buddies every single day, to once every couple days. Being single, I don't have that girlfriend company many others have. I used to think of myself as a pretty damn social guy - and in high school (class of 07) i was very happy with my social life - i don't feel like thats there anymore. I've recently broken up with my girlfriend and i know thats still partly effecting me. But just to prove it to myself that "i still got game" I've been trying to hookup with this one girl at one of my classes. (By hookup, i don't mean sexually i mean socially) In all honesty - shes only cute and it doesnt seem like we got much in common. I'm a fairly good looking guy - So I know the attraction is there. However, she seems like the type thats into "gangsta" guys (i'm not at all). I got her phone number and I've made it fairly obviously I'm somewhat intertested in her, but with this girl I can't seem to hold a converstaion with is it just because we're so different, or is it because I suck socially? Am I just like everyone else? How social i am? How lonely is life and if this is normal do people just handle it differently?